Law 11: Learn to keep people dependent on you
- To maintain independence you must be needed and wanted.
- The more you’re relied on, the more freedom you have.
- Make people depend on you for happiness.
- Never teach them enough so they can do without you.
I can see this rule applying beautifully in relationships.
If you are able to make your SO dependent on you and I’m not talking in terms of income or materials though that applies too, but also in emotional terms i.e. there are certain emotions that she feels only when she’s with you, then you are going to be truly independent.
Why do women so often refuse to dump their cheating boyfriends? Because only these dudes(at least in their eyes) can make them feel happy, like a woman etc.
Instead let your SO know that you need her more than she needs you and the timer on your relationship begins to tick.
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